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Nice conversations with guys during a call

JennyT

Member
Someone asked about some nice conversations during a call. Not just describe what's awkward or uncomfortable.
There were plenty, plenty, plenty.

Ironically, the best conversations were when I was closest to being honest and myself :)
That is when there was a real chance to "click". When I started, I tried to be a "universal escort" that could be good for everybody. Big mistake.
I started being myself later on and it worked hundreds time better.

An example:

I entered, we chatted, he asked if I liked baseball (there was a big baseball game that day)

Me: no (laughing)
Him: neither do I (laughing)
Me: for a moment I wanted to say "yes" and be a good girl, but what the heck, I don't like it
Him: me too, I only asked because everybody talked about it
After that conversation was fun and easy. Just saying things as they are. Finding things in common.

Another time I made animal sounds (when appropriate lol, I don't growl at everybody), and we ended up growling and barking at each other.

I know, those things might sound weird and crazy, but I'm in this to enjoy it, and I enjoy it when I can express myself and find similar-minded people.

I often say how I feel, encourage the person to say how they feel, too, and pretty often it gets me to meaningful conversations or exploration.

One more example (also might be a bit strange haha):

Me: I can do whatever I want, going to take advantage of you
Him: whatever you want, just please don't hurt me
Me: only if you ask nicely
Him: even if I ask, don't hurt me
Me: Ok, I will say no. Let's practice that and make you feel comfortable. Say "hurt me"
Him: Hurt me
Me: NO

(we both laughed)

My sense of humor might a bit strange, but when I find people with similar one, we would laugh so hard that my abs hurts next day.

Or we could discuss history or science for long time. It's hard to give a recipe for chemistry. I guess being oneself is the best thing. It's a win-win, as it brings people that will stick around for years and weed out all the rest.
It's also inspiring as there are new things to read, watch, travel to, think about.
 

GMC

Senior Member
That's too weird.

Another time I made animal sounds (when appropriate lol, I don't growl at everybody), and we ended up growling and barking at each other.
 

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