Haveanitch said:SP turning down a client because he is young?, Are we not in a recession :???:
GenevieveLajoie said:It often has something to do with the kind of experience and service that the SP prefers to cater to: younger guys tend to be looking mostly for a shorter, one-time only, purely sexual experience, whereas older guys are more inclined to be booking longer, "date-like" encounters, and to become regulars.
rustin said:I am in my mid 20's and consider myself to be a good client. I've been turned down several times though because of my age. I was wondering why this is; what behavior do men my age do that is so objectionable?
Haveanitch said:SP turning down a client because he is young?, Are we not in a recession :???:
GenevieveLajoie said:Age preference is not necessarily a comment on you and other younger guys, and can often be only a matter of the SP personal preferences and comfort. Many independent SPs in TO tend to be slighlty older than agencies SPs (between 25 and 35 yo), and this can explain why they feel more comfortable seing guys above 30.
It often has something to do with the kind of experience and service that the SP prefers to cater to: younger guys tend to be looking mostly for a shorter, one-time only, purely sexual experience, whereas older guys are more inclined to be booking longer, "date-like" encounters, and to become regulars.
In terms of behavior, as others have said, older guys tend to have lost the arrogance, cockyness, and sense of entitlement that often come with youth.
Of course, those are all generalizations, and there are always exceptions. But being aware of those generalizations, you can keep them in mind when contacting a provider, and do your best to present yourself as the exception to those generalizations.
randygirl said:Most of us would rather forfeit the potential income rather than be treated badly.
I think that this is a case of "one bad apple spoils the bunch", in general men under 30 are less mature, less respectful and more cocky than older guys.
I don't have an age restriction. I was called a couple of months back by a 22 year old guy, who, as it turns out, was a virgin. (WAS a virgin! lol arty He was respectful during the booking process, and just the cutest during the session; I told him he reminded me of a young Clark Kent. Just adorable. And then there are the young guys who want something for nothing, or think that because they are young, they should not have to pay the same rate as everyone else. (The kid who tried to book yesterday by sending me pics of his cock and asking me if I "liked what I see", comes to mind. <--No, I didn't book him.)
It is hard to generalize based on age. In my limited experience, assholes come in any age bracket, and so I have no age restrictions. If I came across enough under 30s who gave me a hard time, I might start, though.
Those who are disrespectful to me do so during the booking process, and so I usually have no idea how old they are.
GDLLover said:I mean no disrespect by this but maybe the OP is talking in a less than polite manner. I have never been asked how old I am when making initial contact with a lady. Also I have never been refused by a lady, it just so happens that I am above the 30 yr mark but how would the SPs know that I am? Sure word travels any friends will talk and of course the others will know ages if they get a call, but what about those cold calls where the lady is a indy whom is not associate with others, how are they to know our age?
The only thing I can thnk of is that during contact the lady knows from the tone, content and your expectations of a session indicates a demeaner. So its not really age more of a maturity they are looking for. As I have said before SPs are the most perceptive of people, their safety depends on it so that skill is heightened.