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jumpingjackflash

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Joined Jan 7, 2010
Messages 2,941
As most of you know by now, I do enjoy reading different topics on different boards. I would like to bring another topic from another board to this group of members to see what the feel and mind set is here, which to me seems like a very light hearted group of members.

I hope this is not frowned upon by the MODS or the other boards, as I do not want to step on anyone’s toes as per say. If I am wrong in posting this, MODS please delete it!

The topic being discussed to no end on another site is the sucking of a cock. If at any point and time, you take in a hard cock and have this engorged hard cock explode in your mouth, are you or should you be labelled gay? Regardless if this cock belongs to a male, trans-gender, or cross dresser, ect....?

My opinion is as follows: if looking or handling a hard cock makes a gentleman gain an erection, he in my mind is gay. I don't harbor any ill will towards this individual, as a matter of fact all the power to him if that’s what floats his boat, but in my little pointed head, he is gay.

Some of the other fine members here who have participated will of course know the thread I am referring to and I welcome more friendly banter and debate over this hot topic, plus I would love to hear the perspective of the individuals that seems to frequent this board only.
 

RayFinkel

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Joined Jan 7, 2010
Messages 1,072


 

jumpingjackflash

Reviewer
Joined Jan 7, 2010
Messages 2,941
Ray is so gay! :lol:

As for the question of fondling another man's or whatever's privates, gay, or possibly bi-sexual I would think.
 
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Borey the Bald

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I don't get it isn't it obvious he is at least Bi?. Am i missing something here.
 

jagger

Well-known member
Joined Feb 7, 2010
Messages 173
Why it is being discussed to no end on another sit. This is a black and white choice he is gay period.
 

clintE

Senior Member
Joined Dec 27, 2009
Messages 575
Borey the Bald said:
I don't get it isn't it obvious he is at least Bi?. Am i missing something here.

Ditto can anyone explain it properly?
 

GenevieveLajoie

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Joined Nov 11, 2009
Messages 297
My question is, if you are a straight guy, why are you so interested in other guys having an "engorged hard cock explode in [their] mouth", in whether "looking or handling a hard cock" gives those guys a boner or not, and "what" it makes them?

Why do you care? You do seem to enjoy talking about hard cock.
 
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Beenthere123

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GenevieveLajoie said:
My question is, if you are a straight guy, why are you so interested in other guys having an "engorged hard cock explode in [their] mouth", in whether "looking or handling a hard cock" gives those guys a boner or not, and "what" it makes them?

Why do you care? You do seem to enjoy talking about hard cock.

All men are dicks Gen :cool:
 

Albino

Well-known member
Joined Feb 1, 2010
Messages 466
Touch, look, feel, lick another individuals cock "engorged" or limp in my books equals at the very least BI. I am old school, guess it comes with being 50 something. I am not judging anyone who is into that, as it was said on a popular Seinfeld episode, "not that there is anything wrong with that" as long as I don't have to look at it that is. :lol:
 

RayFinkel

Senior Member
Joined Jan 7, 2010
Messages 1,072
GenevieveLajoie said:
My question is, if you are a straight guy, why are you so interested in other guys having an "engorged hard cock explode in [their] mouth", in whether "looking or handling a hard cock" gives those guys a boner or not, and "what" it makes them?

Why do you care? You do seem to enjoy talking about hard cock.


Does anyone else get a chubby when Gen says 'Cock' ? (or hard Cock) ?


BTW - I typed this with my 'Hard Cock' :razz:
 

Raiden

Reviewer
Joined Nov 6, 2009
Messages 6,565
Ray, does Clint know about your hard c, c, shit I can't even say it.:eek:
 

dreamblade

Reviewer
Joined Dec 5, 2009
Messages 1,082
Too much labeling. We're all somewhere in the confines of the Kinsey scale, and extremely few of us are at the polar extremes (all hetero or all homo). Furthermore, what turns us on evolves as we go through life. Bi, gay, straight. Dom, switch, sub. Bodytypes. Blondes, brunettes, redheads.

Do what feels good and is consensual, and be damned with so much labeling.

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jiggyjiggy

Well-known member
Joined Dec 19, 2009
Messages 632
I have seen this thread on the other board. Good guys were being banned over it for defending their positions.

I admit I handle an engorged cock everyday, sometimes twice a day. I also admit that it happens to be only my precious engorged member.

My honest opinion is live and let live, just don't try and change my preferance and call me backwards because I only enjoy womens company.
 

Smooth

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Joined Jan 31, 2010
Messages 707
I will slowly back away with 4times too. 4times, let's sneak over to the Brass Rail I need a shot of testorone.
 
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Tgirl Nikki

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Funny how things tend to spread, huh? :lol:

Two things I'd like to contribute:

1) The so-called "good guys" (though you'll have to forgive me if I don't share the sentiment) weren't banned for defending their positions; they were banned for blatantly insulting an advertiser. This is a critical difference, which I hope is understood by those who are participating in this thread.

2) A question based on two scenarios:
a: A guy (who identifies as straight) has had sex with 100 women, decides he'd like to try sucking a dick, and does so.
b: A guy (who identifies as gay) has had sex with 100 men, and decides he'd like to try licking a pussy, and does so.

Who counts as what, and why?

Hopefully we can avoid having this thread turn into the same thing as the other one did... but please remember that sexuality is complex, varied, and unstable. We may never reach any conclusions, but hopefully, we can still contribute opinions without having to create definitions.
 

Honcho

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Joined Feb 25, 2010
Messages 62
My first post and some of you may not like it. I slept with a man years ago (safe sex) my curiosity got the best of me. For years I felt some kind of attraction towards men, my head was confused thinking I was gay. Its been 2 years now and the urge is gone and see women in a regular basis.

Does that make me gay?.
 

Jawbone

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Joined Jan 26, 2010
Messages 951
Tgirl Nikki said:
Funny how things tend to spread, huh?


Two things I'd like to contribute:

1) The so-called "good guys" (though you'll have to forgive me if I don't share the sentiment) weren't banned for defending their positions; they were banned for blatantly insulting an advertiser. This is a critical difference, which I hope is understood by those who are participating in this thread.

2) A question based on two scenarios:
a: A guy (who identifies as straight) has had sex with 100 women, decides he'd like to try sucking a dick, and does so.
b: A guy (who identifies as gay) has had sex with 100 men, and decides he'd like to try licking a pussy, and does so.

Who counts as what, and why?

Hopefully we can avoid having this thread turn into the same thing as the other one did... but please remember that sexuality is complex, varied, and unstable. We may never reach any conclusions, but hopefully, we can still contribute opinions without having to create definitions.

One of those banned individuals is from this board and in my opinion he did not insult you he stated his opinion. I also believe an individual with a penis is biologically male and an individual with a vagina is female.

I admit that some lady bodybuilders could pass for a man, but in the end they have a vagina, in my opinion, WHICH I have a right to have, they are female.

If this board wants to follow the Gestapo mentality of the other board so be it, but I am not going to be bullied into having beliefs shoved down my throat.

Why didn't the pro gay boys in that thread get banned, I seen enough insults being hurled towards others and they still are not banned.

This politically correct bullshit is just plain WRONG!




Honcho said:
My first post and some of you may not like it. I slept with a man years ago (safe sex) my curiosity got the best of me. For years I felt some kind of attraction towards men, my head was confused thinking I was gay. Its been 2 years now and the urge is gone and see women in a regular basis.

Does that make me gay?.

In my humble opinion yes it does, I would say you have homosexual tendencies, and I am not judging you I am stating my opinion.
 

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