Slut Shaming the Whore

[Anneliese]

So let's turn this thing around.

Say a female school teacher who is just ''Jane'' average has interest in a Man.

And that man confides to her that he is a male prostitute.

How do you think she would react?

If a gentleman told me that in the past he was a male prostitute, I would have no problem with that, nor would Jane the librarian... that was his past, and she is his future .... I wonder would I and Jane also equally have no problem with the fact that he might have been a soldier in Afganistan and killed an entire village of innocent civilians? Probably not, as in this society killing in the name of war is more acceptable that fucking for money.... Does the murderous soldier deserve more understanding and consideration than the slut? In our society it would seem so... he kills hundred of innocent "foreign" nationales and miitants, and is a hero and I fuck for money and am reprehensible... There is something rotten in Denmark when there is this kind of discrepancy in acceptance and judgement. Just trying to put it all in perspective.

 

[Andy_for_pay]

Wow! I see you have a wealth of compassion for my hurt and worry.... thank you so much for your empathetic response.

I wrote an articulate, honest, open post of a painful experience for me, and did so in complete honesty and vulnerability.... and your insensitive and self-serving and ignorant response is this? I bet you think the other guys will think you are cool now, huh? What are we, in highschool?

crazy broad :-Cool/"

 

[Anneliese]

crazy broad :-Cool/"

I am dazzled by the brilliance of your witty, articulate and clever response....

 

[cristycurves]

As a man who has dated escorts and MPA's in the past I can tell you from my experience that I was turned on by what they did. And that attitude was certainly not shared by my peer group at the time. So i would have too say that I was ''different'' I would submit to you that it takes a unique character to even be in this business. A great deal of the women I have met and knew more than casually were victims of some sort of abuse somewhere down the line. And I really wish this wasn't true. I know there are exceptions but this is just my own personal experience.

Yes I get what you are saying but you aren't understanding my point. I'm saying that we shouldn't be *looked* at as being different.Yes, We may be on many levels, but simply because we choose this lifestyle or choose to date someone within this lifestyle, we shouldn't be denigrated or treated like we don't belong in society. Yes we may be wiser, more open minded, more unique, more fun, more interesting, different in many ways and more a lot of things but regardless we still deserve that same amount of respect and rights as any other human being, that was my point.But there are alot of interesting and unique people everywhere and in every walk of life, animal rescue is an outlet with many, many wonderful human beings. Things that tend to put people on the fringe generally causes souls to be more "human", better people, but that's just my experience

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

Interesting repeated mention of "in the past" in this thread.
Relationships do flourish even when one involved is currently a companion. It takes considerate work and patience by all involved, just as all relationships do.

 

[Robintheboywonder]

I don't believe anyone should be looked down upon for what they do but it happens all the time. A garbage man is looked down upon, civil servants are hated for what they do, imagine a dirty construction worker after a hard day walking into a restaurant to sit down, he's looked down upon. People will never change their instinct to judge others.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

we shouldn't be denigrated or treated like we don't belong in society.

Yes I totally agree.

Across the board absolute legalization is the only way to attain this objective.

 

[clubxxx]

Well it works both ways. I know an Sps former and current who will never date a man who has hobbies even if they only do so when single.

 

[oldguyzer]

Yes I get what you are saying but you aren't understanding my point. I'm saying that we shouldn't be *looked* at as being different.Yes, We may be on many levels, but simply because we choose this lifestyle or choose to date someone within this lifestyle, we shouldn't be denigrated or treated like we don't belong in society. Yes we may be wiser, more open minded, more unique, more fun, more interesting, different in many ways and more a lot of things but regardless we still deserve that same amount of respect and rights as any other human being, that was my point.But there are alot of interesting and unique people everywhere and in every walk of life, animal rescue is an outlet with many, many wonderful human beings. Things that tend to put people on the fringe generally causes souls to be more "human", better people, but that's just my experience

My last two experiences with ladies in the business were both long-term excellent relationships. It all comes down to being able to handle the situation properly, without judging or getting jealous. My relationships with both SPs and MPAs have been the best I have ever had, and continue to be. Two of my closest female friends are ladies I met in the business.

 

[cristycurves]

My last two experiences with ladies in the business were both long-term excellent relationships. It all comes down to being able to handle the situation properly, without judging or getting jealous. My relationships with both SPs and MPAs have been the best I have ever had, and continue to be. Two of my closest female friends are ladies I met in the business.

Exactly, some might call it maturity But when two people are clear about expectations, boundaries, etc, all will work out and end with having a very and rewarding fulfilling relationship. To many get wrapped up in pasts, silliness and they forget what really matters.

 

[oldguyzer]

Exactly, some might call it maturity But when two people are clear about expectations, boundaries, etc, all will work out and end with having a very and rewarding fulfilling relationship. To many get wrapped up in pasts, silliness and they forget what really matters.

My first relationship with a stripper, many, many years go when I was in my early 20s and DJing at a strip club to earn my way through University (and see naked ladies!!!), she told me "it's just a job". It took a while to understand, but once I did, life got a lot better.