MisterAsianLover
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Messages 1,478
Messages 1,478
I was with an SP in Hamilton yesterday. When I arrived, she insisted I shower before we start. But, she didn't join me in the shower and just waited on the bed outside. I felt she was time-wasting so that the appt length would be reduced and it pissed me off. I will not repeat with this SP again.
Before every appointment, I shower and then drive to the incall. When I arrive, I go to the washroom to use mouthwash and wash my hands, for I was just touching elevator buttons, outside door handles and the like. When I arrive, it is obvious that I am clean and take care of myself. If the lady requests it, I will shower before the main event begins. However, I expect that my time will not be deducted if the SP requests that I shower before we start. I get very annoyed when my shower time is deducted, given that the SP demanded a shower to take place. And if an SP demands I take a shower, the SP should enter the shower with me so that we can both be sure that proper washing has taken place. I want to see her wash up and I want her to watch me wash up too. If she simply tells me to take a shower, but doesn't join me, how does she know I am even adequately cleaning myself with soap and water? I see such a shower demand as a way to shorten my appt time and make it easy for a lazy SP to put in less effort.
I find it laughable that an SP wants me to shower so that I am 'clean' before we start. SPs see 30+ guys per week, while I only see 2 girls a week, if that. If anyone should have a concern about 'cleanliness', it should be me demanding that the girl shower while I am there before we start. But, I never demand such a thing.
I have been with well over 100 SPs. SPs usually just rinse their vagina with water between clients as well as rinse their bodies. Some girls use soap to actually clean their bodies, but not many. I understand that an SP can't use soap between every client, for her skin will get SO DRY that she will actually create breakage on her skin surface and open herself up to infection. Sometimes, it is better to rinse instead of doing a thorough soap (surfactant) cleaning. I get that. I understand the science behind it and the health implications.
But if SPs are to demand that clients shower, the SP should AT LEAST go to the bathroom with the client and step in the shower with the client. Don't just use the shower demand as a time occupier.
Before every appointment, I shower and then drive to the incall. When I arrive, I go to the washroom to use mouthwash and wash my hands, for I was just touching elevator buttons, outside door handles and the like. When I arrive, it is obvious that I am clean and take care of myself. If the lady requests it, I will shower before the main event begins. However, I expect that my time will not be deducted if the SP requests that I shower before we start. I get very annoyed when my shower time is deducted, given that the SP demanded a shower to take place. And if an SP demands I take a shower, the SP should enter the shower with me so that we can both be sure that proper washing has taken place. I want to see her wash up and I want her to watch me wash up too. If she simply tells me to take a shower, but doesn't join me, how does she know I am even adequately cleaning myself with soap and water? I see such a shower demand as a way to shorten my appt time and make it easy for a lazy SP to put in less effort.
I find it laughable that an SP wants me to shower so that I am 'clean' before we start. SPs see 30+ guys per week, while I only see 2 girls a week, if that. If anyone should have a concern about 'cleanliness', it should be me demanding that the girl shower while I am there before we start. But, I never demand such a thing.
I have been with well over 100 SPs. SPs usually just rinse their vagina with water between clients as well as rinse their bodies. Some girls use soap to actually clean their bodies, but not many. I understand that an SP can't use soap between every client, for her skin will get SO DRY that she will actually create breakage on her skin surface and open herself up to infection. Sometimes, it is better to rinse instead of doing a thorough soap (surfactant) cleaning. I get that. I understand the science behind it and the health implications.
But if SPs are to demand that clients shower, the SP should AT LEAST go to the bathroom with the client and step in the shower with the client. Don't just use the shower demand as a time occupier.