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HOF

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frankpost said:
The PRO that I could see is that you would be seeing an SP continually, and it is offered at an hourly rate. If it were to stop, you may still want to see her but at $250/hour, $1200-1500/overnight.

Obviously you kids seem to be compatible, thus the situation. A lot of us hobbyist tend to repeat with SPs (I have repeated 5-6 times with my ATFs), so it would be kind of the same thing! If you currently do not have other options, someone else to date, I don't see what the cons would be. We hobbyists apparently do not have a problem with being with a lady that has been with several men in a day (we actually pay to see them). There are many hypocrytes here.

I really do not see a Con, except the biggest factor, you must be able to handle your significant other as an SP. If that is not a stumbling block, then my suggestion is to enjoy the moment (we are only talking about casual dating). Just remember that you are accepting her "as is", the problem will arise only when you attempt to change her or if she attempts to change you.

There are many relationships that exist, that the relationship is open. This situation is not for everyone. If you can handle it, then nobody should tell you otherwise. (Tito Ortiz-UFC married Jenna Jamieson, so why not).

Just my two cents.

Frankpost, you're being alittle dramatic here. Jackassjack clearly stated that it's a fling. If he's getting some free nookie wonderful and it would appear that he sees the reality of the situation.

You contradict yourself when you wrote, " really do not see a Con, except the biggest factor,"

You should be prudent when using the word hypocrite on an ERB.

LMAO
 

smylee52

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I was just thinking on the pro side , by the time she gets to see you in the evening , she's already had some guys give her moderately enjoyable to awful experiences so pretty much anything you do will be an improvement .

You are like her night in shining armor .
 

frankpost

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Without getting into a lengthy discussion, I don't see myself contradicting myself because not all men are creating equal. Not every guy has a hang up that the SO has other partners. I clearly stated that in my thread. Some guys get their rocks off watching their SO with someone else. (Who am I to judge!)
My advice was simply to examine his own situation, and I agreed with the other threads, proceed as he sees fit. If he wants to change her, then I would suggest that he should go down a different road.

HOF said:
Frankpost, you're being alittle dramatic here. Jackassjack clearly stated that it's a fling. If he's getting some free nookie wonderful and it would appear that he sees the reality of the situation.

You contradict yourself when you wrote, " really do not see a Con, except the biggest factor,"

You should be prudent when using the word hypocrite on an ERB.

LMAO

smylee52 said:
I was just thinking on the pro side , by the time she gets to see you in the evening , she's already had some guys give her moderately enjoyable to awful experiences so pretty much anything you do will be an improvement .
I would agree with that. It may be that it would be a ritual that she would want to perform for you as the last person she remembers before she dreams.

You are like her night in shining armor .

Here is where the hypocrite relates. If you talk about "tasting" another man, you might want to examine yourself. There is a good chance during your encounters, someone else was just there before you.

HOF said:
I am apologizing in advance because your pseudo GF, my SP, will be screaming out my name when she's with you! That thing that your pseudo GF doesn't allow you to do, she loves when I do it.

The big question is: How do like my taste? LMAO She ate my future family!

Okay, seriously, I apologize for raggin' on you man. I just couldn't resist! BTW, Have I reviewed her yet?
 
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HOF

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frankpost said:
Without getting into a lengthy discussion, I don't see myself contradicting myself because not all men are creating equal. Not every guy has a hang up that the SO has other partners. I clearly stated that in my thread. Some guys get their rocks off watching their SO with someone else. (Who am I to judge!)
My advice was simply to examine his own situation, and I agreed with the other threads, proceed as he sees fit. If he wants to change her, then I would suggest that he should go down a different road.





Here is where the hypocrite relates. If you talk about "tasting" another man, you might want to examine yourself. There is a good chance during your encounters, someone else was just there before you.


Dude, you're making way too much out of this, and you appear to me to take things just alittle too seriously. Do you have a sense of humour? Do you understand sarcasm? My remarks were made in jest and if you don't read them that way, that's your problem.

Calling me or insinuating that I am a hypocrite is quite humourous. During some of my encounters, there sometimes are other gents present. They're called parties. LOL. One time at band camp, well read my reviews and maybe you'll figure it out.

Really dude, don't take things so seriously, it's not healthy. Remember, the hobby is all a fantasy. Dating and hobbying are different realities. JMO.
 

lovesbig ____

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Over the years, I've had my share of dating strippers, massage girls, and escorts (off the meter). By far, dating escorts zero's in on the 'uncool' factor. I learned the hard way, only one way to get anything postive out of banging an escort, keep it casual. The more of a life you carve out for yourself outside of your fuck/friend relationship (passion's, hobby's, friend's, girlfriend's etc) the happier/healthier you'll be in the long run . . .
 

Jawbone

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Isn't the idea to pay them to go home. Why deal with the baggage and drama that comes along with an SP? Pay and go I say!
 

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I guess I see being an SP as a job not as a personality characteristic, so it would totally be dependent on the lady you are dating. Of course, there are perks and downfalls of dating a person in every profession. For example, when dating a mechanic: Pros: never needing to take your car in again and hearing that the blinker fluid needs to be chaged AGAIN. Cons: kind of dirty and maybe not the best paycheck. Or a doctor: Pros: there would be free medical advice and nice paycheck. Cons: long hours and always wanting to play golf (YUCK). So with dating an SP: Pros: she sets her schedule, she will have awesome stories, she will most likely be able to listen to your boring-ass stories without yawning, of course she most likely be awesome in bed and maybe a little bit more openminded than the average gf. Cons: worried about her safety (this would be the hardest for me).

Now if your the jealous type and not interested in having an open relationship than I suggest looking elsewhere, I can't see this working. However, if you are attracted to her and she has what you are looking for in a gf, I think it could be awesome. BTW, I do know an SP whose bf knows what she does and fully supports her. He even gets off to hearing her stories in bed. So not everyone could be with a mechanic or a doctor or an SP. It just depends on both of your personalities if its going to work, not her career path.
 

jackoffme

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3somesarethenewblack said:
I guess I see being an SP as a job not as a personal characteristic, so it would totally be dependent on the lady you are dating. Of course, there are perks and downfalls of dating a person in every profession. For example, when dating a mechanic: Pros: never needing to take your car in again and hearing that the blinker fluid needs to be chaged AGAIN. Cons: kind of dirty and maybe not the best paycheck. Or a doctor: Pros: there would be free medical advice and nice paycheck. Cons: long hours and always wanting to play golf (YUCK). So with dating an SP: Pros: she sets her schedule, she will have awesome stories, she will most likely be able to listen to your boring-ass stories without yawning, of course she most likely be awesome in bed and maybe a little bit more openminded than the average gf. Cons: worried about her safety (this would be the hardest for me).

Now if your the jealous type and not interested in having an open relationship than I suggest looking elsewhere, I can't see this working. However, if you are attracted to her and she has what you are looking for in a gf, I think it could be awesome. BTW, I do know an SP whose bf knows what she does and fully supports her. He even gets off to hearing her stories in bed. So not everyone could be with a mechanic or a doctor or an SP. It just depends on both of your personalities if its going to work, not her career path.

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iceman_dci

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I dated Dancers for a long period of my life; working in SC's does that to a guy. I'm not the jealous type and if the girl I was dating happened to work at the same bar, I had an option to go work at another bar or she would. I would always be looking out for her safety and not concentrating on the other girls. It was a simple rule but one that I insisted on.

All the drama that comes with a job in the sex profession came to light. I grew accustomed to it but it soon wore on me and I didn't want to deal with the drama anymore; I chose to work in "regular" bars, but that too had it's own dramas, in the end, I quit working security all together and concentrated on my main career...and here I am..entertaining you fine ppl and spending awesome times with some lovely ladies.:)
 

Curious

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3somesarethenewblack said:
I guess I see being an SP as a job not as a personality characteristic, so it would totally be dependent on the lady you are dating. Of course, there are perks and downfalls of dating a person in every profession. For example, when dating a mechanic: Pros: never needing to take your car in again and hearing that the blinker fluid needs to be chaged AGAIN. Cons: kind of dirty and maybe not the best paycheck. Or a doctor: Pros: there would be free medical advice and nice paycheck. Cons: long hours and always wanting to play golf (YUCK). So with dating an SP: Pros: she sets her schedule, she will have awesome stories, she will most likely be able to listen to your boring-ass stories without yawning, of course she most likely be awesome in bed and maybe a little bit more openminded than the average gf. Cons: worried about her safety (this would be the hardest for me).

Now if your the jealous type and not interested in having an open relationship than I suggest looking elsewhere, I can't see this working. However, if you are attracted to her and she has what you are looking for in a gf, I think it could be awesome. BTW, I do know an SP whose bf knows what she does and fully supports her. He even gets off to hearing her stories in bed. So not everyone could be with a mechanic or a doctor or an SP. It just depends on both of your personalities if its going to work, not her career path.
Best answer in the thread......you go girl.....
 

smylee52

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3somesarethenewblack said:
I guess I see being an SP as a job not as a personality characteristic, so it would totally be dependent on the lady you are dating. Of course, there are perks and downfalls of dating a person in every profession. For example, when dating a mechanic: Pros: never needing to take your car in again and hearing that the blinker fluid needs to be chaged AGAIN. Cons: kind of dirty and maybe not the best paycheck. Or a doctor: Pros: there would be free medical advice and nice paycheck. Cons: long hours and always wanting to play golf (YUCK). So with dating an SP: Pros: she sets her schedule, she will have awesome stories, she will most likely be able to listen to your boring-ass stories without yawning, of course she most likely be awesome in bed and maybe a little bit more openminded than the average gf. Cons: worried about her safety (this would be the hardest for me).

Now if your the jealous type and not interested in having an open relationship than I suggest looking elsewhere, I can't see this working. However, if you are attracted to her and she has what you are looking for in a gf, I think it could be awesome. BTW, I do know an SP whose bf knows what she does and fully supports her. He even gets off to hearing her stories in bed. So not everyone could be with a mechanic or a doctor or an SP. It just depends on both of your personalities if its going to work, not her career path.


A good example of why SP's are better off dating girls . They don't care how many cocks you suck as long as you come home safe . They don't care what friends will say when they find out the girlfriend is a hooker . Not to sure they would want the gory details of the SP's work day but maybe some would There really should be a thread about the Pro's and Con's of SP's dating girls :lol: .
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afterdark

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Why would anybody want a relationship with a sp? Once you get past the fun-factor of fucking them for free, then what? Aside from making money, what's a typical sp's day-to-day aspirations? Sleeping 12 hrs a day? Looking pretty?
 

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afterdark said:
Why would anybody want a relationship with a sp? Once you get past the fun-factor of fucking them for free, then what? Aside from making money, what's a typical sp's day-to-day aspirations? Sleeping 12 hrs a day? Looking pretty?

That's a pretty ignorant statement. There are quite a few SP's with high aspirations AND the smarts to back it up. Even besides that, SP's are normal people... normal people with a pretty difficult and shitty job since they have to fuck morons like you.
 

Randy Moss

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afterdark said:
Why would anybody want a relationship with a sp? Once you get past the fun-factor of fucking them for free, then what? Aside from making money, what's a typical sp's day-to-day aspirations? Sleeping 12 hrs a day? Looking pretty?

You fell off the cradle when you were a pup?
 
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All4one

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I dont fully agree with afterdark but!!! really why you want to date with SP?? I dont remember any success stories about dating with SP.

Yea we all know SPs are normal people bla bla bla..... but you really can forget or accept what she does/did for living??? I know i cant.
 
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JohnFK

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I know an SP who's articulate, cultured, intelligent, perfect in social settings, looks compatible with me in public, is great in bed, and sweet. I tease her that I'd get off on her stories if I was her man (and do her good in the process). Being an SP for her is a job, and not a reflection of who she really is.

As for dating one, obviously, it has to be an open relationship. A swinger mentality would help. This doesn't mean both can do whatever they want with whoever they want. There has to be full communication or understanding of the terms.

If the OP is casually dating this SP, and having fun, my advice is, don't go deep (the 1st golden rule of dating a stripper, lol), and enjoy your time together. Eventually, you may truly love her inner beauty.
 

Jackie James

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forestgrumpy said:
More cons than pros, can you deal with her screwing 4 to 6 guys a day then seeing you? I know I can't.

4-6 clients per day???
What planet are you living on?

LMFAO!!!
 

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