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Rip

Member
Joined Feb 13, 2010
Messages 12
I never cheated on my girlfriend but it is becoming dull and unexcited. Been together for 4 years our sex life from 3 times a week to now once a month. We are engaged to be married in July I love her but I also want more than once a month. I am 27 she is 24 do you think it will change. Should I see an escort to compensate for the lack of sex. We are both fairly average attractive and fit with Bachelors degrees and plan to have kids.

I need to see an escort that kisses passionately, enjoys to be pampered and is a nice person. Who would you suggest. Will log off and hopefully someone can help me with a recommendation by tomorrow.

Thank you​
 

GDLLover

Well-known member
Joined Dec 8, 2009
Messages 439
4Times said:
Ashlyn @ Secret Rendezvous
Melody @ Entourage
Natalia @ Entourage https://www.theredzone.com/tor/amazing/
Jemma @ Mirage
Kareena @ Toronto Girlfriend

These would be my suggestions bud. Exactly what you are asking for.

BTW. Nobody wants to hurt their SO. Most guys deeply want to carry on their life with their SO and use the hobby to fill a need. After 4-years, you better have more than just sex going for you if your relationship is going to make it long term. It's funny but guys can partition this hobbying type of activity in their heads and it never interferes with how he feels about his SO. Unfortuneately engaging in this hobby will end you relationship with your SO if she finds out so be very careful. Think twice about even following through. Watch what you put on your cell phone. Don't write any info down and put it in your pockets. Don't print info out from a computor. Use common sense and you should never have to hurt your partner.

All good points 4X, RIP only you can decide whether to cheat or not is right for you. Many of us do for our own reasons, just be sure you are comfortable with your decision and if caught you know the consiquence.

To add, always wear a different shirt to see SPs and change before going home, perfume gets on you and your SO will pick it up. If your pulling money from a joint account, I recommend you get small amounts or cashbacks and save until your ready. Never use Visa/MC in parking near the Incall, same goes with buying gas or anything traceable to your whereabouts in an area you are not normally in. Trust me women get a sixth sense and when they get that feeling she will look to see if there are any new habits you have compared to before including perusing the bank accounts. As an example I usually have a business meeting in the morning once a week and hobby in the afternoon (she thinks the meeting is all day) this way my whereabouts isn't questioned. All i'm saying is think things through when you hobby to cover your tracks. Any more questions let us know, i'm sure someone here has thought about it.
 

IMBob

Reviewer
Joined Jan 8, 2010
Messages 29
frequency

frequency

IMO, Get used to once a month or even less. You will never get back to 3x/week with this partner.
 

Knight Rider

Well-known member
Joined Nov 14, 2009
Messages 1,471
Rip said:
I never cheated on my girlfriend but it is becoming dull and unexcited. Been together for 4 years our sex life from 3 times a week to now once a month. We are engaged to be married in July I love her but I also want more than once a month. I am 27 she is 24 do you think it will change. Should I see an escort to compensate for the lack of sex. We are both fairly average attractive and fit with Bachelors degrees and plan to have kids.

I need to see an escort that kisses passionately, enjoys to be pampered and is a nice person. Who would you suggest. Will log off and hopefully someone can help me with a recommendation by tomorrow.

Thank you
Rip, the decision is yours. Whatever you decide, I hope that you are comfortable with it and the possible consequences.

If you do want to see a SP that kisses passionately, is a nice person and enjoys being pampered, I have a couple of suggestions

Sexy Jordan(Independent):
Holly @ Roommates:
Tyler @ Roommates:
Jemma @ Mirage:
Abby @ Mirage:
Bianca @ Exquisite:
Robyn @ GOE:
Noir: (Independent)
Kareena @ Toronto Girlfriend:
Latika @ Dreammakers :
Scarlett @ Mirage:
 

smylee52

Well-known member
Joined Nov 16, 2009
Messages 558
Rip said:
I never cheated on my girlfriend but it is becoming dull and unexcited. Been together for 4 years our sex life from 3 times a week to now once a month. We are engaged to be married in July I love her but I also want more than once a month. I am 27 she is 24 do you think it will change. Should I see an escort to compensate for the lack of sex. We are both fairly average attractive and fit with Bachelors degrees and plan to have kids.

I need to see an escort that kisses passionately, enjoys to be pampered and is a nice person. Who would you suggest. Will log off and hopefully someone can help me with a recommendation by tomorrow.

Thank you​


Yikes . If it's once a month now you can expect less after you get married . Once the kids come it gets less frequent as well . Dude if you can use the words dull and unexcited in the same sentence as girlfriend your relationship has serious problems . Better get some couples counselling to see if marriage is a good idea before you make a huge mistake .
 

neverenoughsex

Well-known member
Joined Nov 10, 2009
Messages 347
smylee52 said:
Yikes . If it's once a month now you can expect less after you get married . Once the kids come it gets less frequent as well . Dude if you can use the words dull and unexcited in the same sentence as girlfriend your relationship has serious problems . Better get some couples counselling to see if marriage is a good idea before you make a huge mistake .

Listen to Smylee rip counselling is needed before you make the big commitment.
 

Smooth

Well-known member
Joined Jan 31, 2010
Messages 707
Rip I am 26 years old dated my High School sweetheart untill 2 years ago. Plans of marriage and kids deteriorated once we started to work full time. Our sex lives become more of a have to than want to. We both realized it was not going to work. Think deeply about getting married, sex once a month brings out the red light.

See becky that is now independent to guide you through it she is very smart and may be able to give you advice the sex session.​
 

Marcus

Well-known member
Joined Feb 14, 2010
Messages 211
smylee52 said:
Yikes . If it's once a month now you can expect less after you get married . Once the kids come it gets less frequent as well . Dude if you can use the words dull and unexcited in the same sentence as girlfriend your relationship has serious problems . Better get some couples counselling to see if marriage is a good idea before you make a huge mistake .

%100 Agreed!
 

mynameismo

Well-known member
Joined Jan 18, 2010
Messages 660
Many good advice given here rip all I can say is don't get married now if you are looking for a SP now imagine after you are married.
 

DrAnus

Well-known member
Joined Feb 1, 2010
Messages 238
Learn from my experience rip I am over 50 years old, 3 failed marriages only because I thought love lasts forever. It does not neither does sex with the same partner. Think long and hard what your next step will be.
See Tonya @ RM for what you are looking for.
 

clintE

Senior Member
Joined Dec 27, 2009
Messages 575
All4one said:
Dont get married.

Take the hint rip once a month is not normal Scarlett @ Mirage is the first SP you should see then thank me later.
 

Rip

Member
Joined Feb 13, 2010
Messages 12
4Times said:
BTW. Nobody wants to hurt their SO. Most guys deeply want to carry on their life with their SO and use the hobby to fill a need. After 4-years, you better have more than just sex going for you if your relationship is going to make it long term. It's funny but guys can partition this hobbying type of activity in their heads and it never interferes with how he feels about his SO. Unfortuneately engaging in this hobby will end you relationship with your SO if she finds out so be very careful. Think twice about even following through. Watch what you put on your cell phone. Don't write any info down and put it in your pockets. Don't print info out from a computor. Use common sense and you should never have to hurt your partner.

Thanks for your suggestions will keep your advice in mind.

GDLLover said:
if caught you know the consiquence.

To add, always wear a different shirt to see SPs and change before going home, perfume gets on you and your SO will pick it up. If your pulling money from a joint account, I recommend you get small amounts or cashbacks and save until your ready. Never use Visa/MC in parking near the Incall, same goes with buying gas or anything traceable to your whereabouts in an area you are not normally in. Trust me women get a sixth sense and when they get that feeling she will look to see if there are any new habits you have compared to before including perusing the bank accounts. As an example I usually have a business meeting in the morning once a week and hobby in the afternoon (she thinks the meeting is all day) this way my whereabouts isn't questioned. All i'm saying is think things through when you hobby to cover your tracks. Any more questions let us know, i'm sure someone here has thought about it.

Good things to know Gd, thanks
iceman_dci said:
Rip:

We've all been there. We all hobby for our own reasons. I can only tell you that we're all different and we all deal with the emotions our own way. There are a couple of good threads that you should read.



There is a list of Do's and Do Nots that I put in this thread as a guide to myself; use it at your own discretion..

I also started a thread about how you feel after your session...

There are great bunch of guys here, and we all support each other...who else are we going to run to that won't throw us to the wolves as soon as they smell trouble :)

I agree wth my brothers here, there has to be more than just sex missing from your relationship. If that's all that's holding it together, perhaps you should reconsider the marriage thing, no matter what the social pressures are. If you choose to hobby, you should be prepared to live with the regret/guilt and guile that befalls all of us to some degree.

I hobby because I miss the honeymoon and the butterflies when it comes to having sex with someone for the first time or someone you haven't seen in a while. This hobby is addictive...be careful.

Choose wisely in whatever you decide; you're a young man and you have much to look forward to.

Last comment...have you spoken with your SO about this missing element of your relationship...?

Thanks Iceman for the links and sharing your experiences. We talked about why sex is so infrequent and she says to have stress at work and says nothing else

smylee52 said:
Yikes . If it's once a month now you can expect less after you get married . Once the kids come it gets less frequent as well . Dude if you can use the words dull and unexcited in the same sentence as girlfriend your relationship has serious problems . Better get some couples counselling to see if marriage is a good idea before you make a huge mistake .

Thanks Smylee we have a great time with everything else. We laugh, travel go to shows and I have become dependent of her. Living without her would be impossible why I want to see an escort to compensate for the lack of sex.

Thanks to all of you for the suggestions.
 

Iambad

Well-known member
Joined Jan 28, 2010
Messages 899
Rip said:
Living without her would be impossible

RIP you are screwed even when you don't get screwed. Living with her will be hell, mark my words. You have a very wrong way of thinking.
 

jumpingjackflash

Reviewer
Joined Jan 7, 2010
Messages 2,941
I agree with IAMBAD, dump before you tie the knot and it cost you big $$$!

An SP a day helps keep the pump well lubricated!!
 

jagger

Well-known member
Joined Feb 7, 2010
Messages 173
Young chap what you have is an addiction called loneliness. You are worried you may not find another one and scared to let it go. Walk the straight line mate.
 

Wilsonjso

Well-known member
Joined Nov 12, 2009
Messages 2,650
we have a great time with everything else. We laugh, travel go to shows and I have become dependent of her. Living without her would be impossible why I want to see an escort to compensate for the lack of sex.

ok Rip, the guys here gave you awesome advices, so if you made your mind and would like to try a SP that will rock your world go see [email protected]
 

forestgrumpy

Well-known member
Joined Feb 1, 2010
Messages 431
Wilsonjso said:
we have a great time with everything else. We laugh, travel go to shows and I have become dependent of her. Living without her would be impossible why I want to see an escort to compensate for the lack of sex.

ok Rip, the guys here gave you awesome advices, so if you made your mind and would like to try a SP that will rock your world go see [email protected]

Melody 2 entourage also a good bet.
 

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