I have trouble sleeping the night before...

[bolt.upright]

Is it just me or does this happen to others too?

I HATE prebooking with a lady. I understand that the ladies prefer it, and I can certainly understand why. However, if I have an appointment tomorrow, it's pretty much guaranteed that I'm not going to sleep much tonight.

I've been in this hobby for almost three years now. Really, I have no idea why I still find it so exciting, but I do. I rarely prebook with a lady I haven't met before so it isn't that I am anxious about meeting someone new. Usually it's a lady that I've seen many times before, but still I get too excited to sleep, just thinking about the sweet, sweet time I'm going to have.

It works a little better when I don't have a specific appointment, so I often leave it that way. I know that the lady I want to see is working today, she knows I'd like to see her, and she'll (I hope) try to squeeze me in at some point when I'm able to see her. Just the possibility that she may cancel the day, get too busy to see me (after all, I don't really have an appointment), or something may come up in my life, makes sleep the night before possible. Still though, I'll wake up at 4 a.m., and that's it--I'm up for the day, way too excited to sleep any more.

Of course, on those days I'm pretty sleepy by 8 or 9 p.m. That can be a problem on days that I'm working, as I do work evenings. By the time I get home from work (10:30 or 11:00 p.m.) I'm exhausted.

Any advice (other than quitting the hobby)?

 

[papasmerf]

We all suffer from anticipation..............For me it is when I fly.

 

[Beached]

Twice I have pre booked the day before and the lady has forgotten I was coming once and forgotten the amount of time booked once. Same lady. When she forgot I was coming she asked is 1/2 hour all right. It was not, so she fit me in for the hour and all went fine. Great actually. When she forgot I booked an hour, not a half hour she did a little texting and we had a great hour. Not a great start to an appointment when the lady is on her phone for the first few minutes, but both sessions turned out well in the end. So bottom line is booking the day before better or not. I do not like to bother the ladies with extra texts but should I be reconfirming the day of ?
The hobby is fairly new to me so yes, a little excited the night before.

 

[Madman]

You need to have a little whiskey on the rocks the night of and not think so much about the lady and the next day.

Also, watch a little porn and do what needs to be done before bed, you'll sleep like a baby.

 

[Peter Baires]

I can always take you appointment if you feel too tired to perform
just do what MM said. That should help. If one drink dosen't calm you down increase the dosage

 

[God]

The is no shame on taking sleeping pills Bolt.

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

Why would you want to get rid of the excitement and anticipation building up? IMO if you no longer feel excited to see somebody...anybody, you should re-examine your life choices.

Pre-booking and reconfirming the day before or morning of go hand-in-hand.

 

[bolt.upright]

Why would you want to get rid of the excitement and anticipation building up? IMO if you no longer feel excited to see somebody...anybody, you should re-examine your life choices.

Pre-booking and reconfirming the day before or morning of go hand-in-hand.

Good point. I love the anticipation and excitement, I just miss the sleep!

 

[TFZL1]

Twice I have pre booked the day before and the lady has forgotten I was coming once and forgotten the amount of time booked once. Same lady. When she forgot I was coming she asked is 1/2 hour all right. It was not, so she fit me in for the hour and all went fine. Great actually. When she forgot I booked an hour, not a half hour she did a little texting and we had a great hour. Not a great start to an appointment when the lady is on her phone for the first few minutes, but both sessions turned out well in the end. So bottom line is booking the day before better or not. I do not like to bother the ladies with extra texts but should I be reconfirming the day of ?
The hobby is fairly new to me so yes, a little excited the night before.

On at least one of those occasions, it was probably me on the other end of those texts
I hate when I have an appt and then she says I gotta wait cause she forgot she had an appointment pre-booked.

Like others have said, I like the anticipation. The excitement and build up is part of the experience. Doesn't bother me if I don't get much sleep, I squeeze in naps when I can.
I've also had the problem Bolt mentioned, no booking, but figured she was working and she'd squeeze me in. Didn't work out yesterday, but plan B came together real fast.

As for pre-booking, I always confirm ahead of time. I thought that was good etiquette. I need to know that she didn't forget and things are still on track, and I'm pretty sure she'd feel better knowing her schedule is t going to get screwed up, at least not by me.
I have a couple appointments coming up, booked a couple weeks in advance. First one tomorrow night I'm really looking forward to it, and really confident all will go well, she he most reliable regular, it'll be nice to catch up. And since it's a familiar lady, a little pre-appt sex-ting is fun, but she would never do that if I wasn't booked and on my way there.

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[Beached]

On at least one of those occasions, it was probably me on the other end of those texts
I hate when I have an appt and then she says I gotta wait cause she forgot she had an appointment pre-booked.

Like others have said, I like the anticipation. The excitement and build up is part of the experience. Doesn't bother me if I don't get much sleep, I squeeze in naps when I can.
I've also had the problem Bolt mentioned, no booking, but figured she was working and she'd squeeze me in. Didn't work out yesterday, but plan B came together real fast.

As for pre-booking, I always confirm ahead of time. I thought that was good etiquette. I need to know that she didn't forget and things are still on track, and I'm pretty sure she'd feel better knowing her schedule is t going to get screwed up, at least not by me.
I have a couple appointments coming up, booked a couple weeks in advance. First one tomorrow night I'm really looking forward to it, and really confident all will go well, she he most reliable regular, it'll be nice to catch up. And since it's a familiar lady, a little pre-appt sex-ting is fun, but she would never do that if I wasn't booked and on my way there.

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Still new, still learning. Likely was you.

 

[User-E]

Book a long appointment, so you have time for spooning and a nap. :wink2:


I've had sleepless nights caused by the anticipation of seeing a favourite client the next day.

 

[bolt.upright]

Book a long appointment, so you have time for spooning and a nap. :wink2:


I've had sleepless nights caused by the anticipation of seeing a favourite client the next day.

I'm glad to hear it isn't only me!

 

[Wanker]

Book an hour before, if she is available good for you. If not you will get a good night sleep :biggrin2:

 

[MisterAsianLover]

Book days in advance - 7 days.

Then, you will ease into the anticipation.

I sometimes do that.

Always have a plan B.

If your girl isnt available, call another one. There are 1000s working everyday.

 

[What A Wookie]

I sleep better knowing that I have a prebooked appointment. Waiting to call the day of and wondering if I'll get to see who I want would be much worse.

Also what's wrong with being excited to meet someone? It's like when you were a kid on Christmas Eve or before a birthday!

 

[TFZL1]

Yup, I've got that anticipation excitement going on. 24 hours away. I know she won't forget me, but I'll text in the morning anyway to let her know I didn't forget. Now to get some sleep.