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Joined Sep 10, 2015
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No matter how people on the left want to proclaim the possibility of gender fluidity, your gender doesn't change. Your behaviour can change and you can make alterations to your physical body as well as your mental mind, but your gender will always be what you were born with. If you were born with a penis, you are a boy. If a vagina, you are a woman.

Fucking ridiculous.

https://www.theguardian.com/society...ationships-gender-fluid-queer-kristen-stewart

People who believe they are a different gender are free to believe, but facts are facts. A male lion will never be a lioness.
 
Joined Sep 10, 2015
Messages 1,482
Remember this folks,

When a gay guy has sugery and transforms into a woman, the doctor gives him a cavity - the vagina - that has to be kept from healing. The body wants to heal the injury, but the doctor advises the patient to insert a dildo into the cavity injury on a daily/weekly basis so that the injury doesn't heal and the vagina stays intact.

That is not a woman. That is a guy with an injury given to him by a doctor.
 

Analme

Reviewer
Joined Aug 7, 2011
Messages 2,026
I really don't care what someone does to themselves to make themselves live a happy life but I ask and I demand that if a person born a man and is now a woman I'm entitled to know if

1) meet at a bar, tinder, function and we hit it off

2) hire an escort

I have a right to know if the individual had a sex change or is packing heat! If not, then I should be able to sue for misrepresentation because from that point on my life will no longer be the same.
 

Chunky

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Joined Oct 7, 2010
Messages 1,832
I don't believe anyone would ever hide the fact of their prior gender Analme if entering a relationship or a paid encounter. This would be a violation of trust and can cause dangerous outcomes.

MAL, being a libertarian you must agree it's a person's choice to be whatever they want to be?
 
Joined Sep 10, 2015
Messages 1,482
I don't believe anyone would ever hide the fact of their prior gender Analme if entering a relationship or a paid encounter. This would be a violation of trust and can cause dangerous outcomes.

MAL, being a libertarian you must agree it's a person's choice to be whatever they want to be?

Definitely, but I don't want to pay for their sex change and I don't want to be forced to call them by their assigned gender, nor hire them to meet a mandated quota.

I am 100% in support of voluntary cooperation and interaction with the coercion of government law.
 

DonCorleo

Senior Member
Joined Apr 9, 2011
Messages 1,008
Definitely, but I don't want to pay for their sex change and I don't want to be forced to call them by their assigned gender, nor hire them to meet a mandated quota.

I am 100% in support of voluntary cooperation and interaction with the coercion of government law.

We pay for their sex change with our tax dollars?.
 

JunoxGrey

Well-known member
Advertiser
Joined Apr 18, 2016
Messages 123
Wow, just wow. Your opinion is extremely transphobic and bigoted. This is disgusting and extremely uncalled for. Educated yourself a bit more. Oh and by the way happy pride month.

Xoxo
 

Lily Divine

Well-known member
Joined Mar 14, 2013
Messages 383
I've been extremely tied up and popped in for my Sunday post and read... To this?

Kinder.
Nicer.
Gentler.

PFFT!!!!!!!

What we have here is a breach of what I refer to often as my 'staunch no asshole policy'!

For the record I am a:

CIS-FEMALE who is a POLY PANSEXUAL SAPIOPHILE.

To be more blunt... Genetically female, and attracted by someone's mind regardless of gender identity and thrives in a lifestyle with multiple partners.

Right now none of you could get me wet if you paid me to stand in a damn shower with the exception of chunky and Juno!

I am typically respectful of this 'nicer' mentality but this is just asinine.

Thread request:
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Respectfully,
Lily Divine
 
Joined Sep 10, 2015
Messages 1,482
I've been extremely tied up and popped in for my Sunday post and read... To this?

Kinder.
Nicer.
Gentler.

PFFT!!!!!!!

What we have here is a breach of what I refer to often as my 'staunch no asshole policy'!

For the record I am a:

CIS-FEMALE who is a POLY PANSEXUAL SAPIOPHILE.

To be more blunt... Genetically female, and attracted by someone's mind regardless of gender identity and thrives in a lifestyle with multiple partners.

Right now none of you could get me wet if you paid me to stand in a damn shower with the exception of chunky and Juno!

I am typically respectful of this 'nicer' mentality but this is just asinine.

Thread request:
Delete... permanently.
User moderation request: Interwebbs Troll Pruning Openly Requested.

Respectfully,
Lily Divine

The article was put up on a major website and the author would be a fool to think that even 60% of the population agrees with her. I simply stated my opinion in regards to the article and on this site because this site deals with sex and sexuality.

Why try to remove or delete any opinion you disagree with? Yet, you will tell everyone how tolerant you are of others.

People who have gender 'issues' don't just want to be accepted. They want to take my money, they want to punish me for disagreeing with them through enacted laws, they want to preach their lifestyle to my kids etc. If they just wanted to live their life on their own without interference, 99.99% of the population would have no problem with them.
 
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cristycurves

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Oh lord Mal!! Sometimes opinions, especially when bigoted and phobic, should be kept quiet.
I ask you or anyone, why do you care what another has done to themselves? Happiness is a goal we all should want and want for one another. If someone changing their sexual identity brings them happiness then good and that is their business not yours!.
To those who think it's they're business to know, I disagree. A man that is now a woman is now a woman and vice versa. I could see wanting to know if the woman still had intact male genitalia. What ever alterations a person chooses to make, those alterations are then their business and no one else's, unless they decide to make them known. There are far bigger issues to worry about then a persons genitals. Stop worrying so much about what others do and work on your own flaws, we all have some and we all could use improvements:)
 

Analme

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Joined Aug 7, 2011
Messages 2,026
Oh lord Mal!! Sometimes opinions, especially when bigoted and phobic, should be kept quiet.
I ask you or anyone, why do you care what another has done to themselves? Happiness is a goal we all should want and want for one another. If someone changing their sexual identity brings them happiness then good and that is their business not yours!.
To those who think it's they're business to know, I disagree. A man that is now a woman is now a woman and vice versa. I could see wanting to know if the woman still had intact male genitalia. What ever alterations a person chooses to make, those alterations are then their business and no one else's, unless they decide to make them known. There are far bigger issues to worry about then a persons genitals. Stop worrying so much about what others do and work on your own flaws, we all have some and we all could use improvements:)

Cristy, I'm going to respectfully and whole heartily disagree with you on this point. I'm sorry but if I hire a provider for an hour with my $$$$ I expect to know if they were once a man. I completely agree with you in the work place, hiring for a job, using a washroom I have no issues not knowing, it's none of my business but if we are going to be intimate, I"M SORRY MY BODY too and I have a right to share my body with my choice of encounter.
 

Hoser

Senior Member
Joined Jan 22, 2014
Messages 650
Wow, just wow. Your opinion is extremely transphobic and bigoted. This is disgusting and extremely uncalled for. Educated yourself a bit more. Oh and by the way happy pride month.

Xoxo

Not only his opinion. He didn't write what was written in the link, did he :search2:
 

Hoser

Senior Member
Joined Jan 22, 2014
Messages 650
I've been extremely tied up and popped in for my Sunday post and read... To this?

Kinder.
Nicer.
Gentler.

PFFT!!!!!!!

What we have here is a breach of what I refer to often as my 'staunch no asshole policy'!

For the record I am a:

CIS-FEMALE who is a POLY PANSEXUAL SAPIOPHILE.

To be more blunt... Genetically female, and attracted by someone's mind regardless of gender identity and thrives in a lifestyle with multiple partners.

Right now none of you could get me wet if you paid me to stand in a damn shower with the exception of chunky and Juno!

I am typically respectful of this 'nicer' mentality but this is just asinine.

Thread request:
Delete... permanently.
User moderation request: Interwebbs Troll Pruning Openly Requested.

Respectfully,
Lily Divine

Why delete it Ms moderator from the blue board. Your boss doesn't like competition. Boy you sure have double standards.
 

Lily Divine

Well-known member
Joined Mar 14, 2013
Messages 383
Let me be perfectly clear:

1. I do not have a boss in relation to this industry.

2. I have no control over Admin or Mod status I am given on any forum as I'm not an owner.

3. I invite all personal attacks to be made directly to my face. Let's set the keyboards aside and speak like adults. Starbucks? Lunch? My treat!

4. I advertise on multiple sites. While it may not sit well with you, or others... I do not feel compelled to take a stance dealing with it on open forums typically anymore. I said my piece last summer.

I would however like to thank you.

Thank you for condoning hate speech openly...
Thank you for taking the time to address me directly with something that you felt would belittle or undermine my point of view.
Thank you for the opportunity to address the personal side publicly.
Thank you for reminding myself and others that usership is not a reflection of the ownership.

I also kindly request you take a moment to look at my post history with MAL here. This is not the first time I've spoken against him, or his abusive posts. His trolling is often just a 'shake your head' moment, but not always.

While we are all entitled to our opinions... We are also entitled to believe that someone may have the moxy and wherewithal to speak up when someone crosses a line.

Respectfully,
Lily Divine
 

thesun

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Joined Jul 23, 2012
Messages 1,334
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Respectfully,
Lily Divine

Please do not encourage censorhip. People are entitled to their opinions. MAL was was expressing his. Nothing wrong with agreeing/ disagreeing his opinions.

Respectfully,
Thesun
 

thesun

Reviewer
Joined Jul 23, 2012
Messages 1,334
Oh lord Mal!! Sometimes opinions, especially when bigoted and phobic, should be kept quiet.
I ask you or anyone, why do you care what another has done to themselves? Happiness is a goal we all should want and want for one another. If someone changing their sexual identity brings them happiness then good and that is their business not yours!.
To those who think it's they're business to know, I disagree. A man that is now a woman is now a woman and vice versa. I could see wanting to know if the woman still had intact male genitalia. What ever alterations a person chooses to make, those alterations are then their business and no one else's, unless they decide to make them known. There are far bigger issues to worry about then a persons genitals. Stop worrying so much about what others do and work on your own flaws, we all have some and we all could use improvements:)
Should be kept quiet...hmmmm like prostitution? I personally believe it should be legalized but that's another matter here.

If I am hiring an escort, I would appreciate very much if he/she would be upfront if she was a male before. No judgment here but it would be nice to know. I have a preference just like you and many others. I prefer to fuck a natural vagina. I prefer real boobs than fake ones. I am paying my well earned money and it is my choice. When i see an escort, i want a natural looking woman. Period

Meanwhile, if you want to switch gender, I couldnt care less. People make their own choices to be happy.
 
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cristycurves

Guest
Cristy, I'm going to respectfully and whole heartily disagree with you on this point. I'm sorry but if I hire a provider for an hour with my $$$$ I expect to know if they were once a man. I completely agree with you in the work place, hiring for a job, using a washroom I have no issues not knowing, it's none of my business but if we are going to be intimate, I"M SORRY MY BODY too and I have a right to share my body with my choice of encounter.

Thank you, I appreciate the respect:) It's fine to disagree, but really, a pussy is a pussy, a penis a penis, so what difference does it make what it used to be. I'm sorry to say, your $$$ doesn't justify knowing someones history, it simply *allows* you to purchase that persons time, that's it. We as providers ARE NOT obligated to tell anyone anything about our pasts, our surgeries, our families, our scars, our education, etc.
Your statement is almost laughable(and I don't mean that disrespectfully) to me because many hobbyists want to remain anon yet then demand to know their providers history.......CRAZY!! I suppose then.... a dyed blonde should have to admit she was a redhead or brunette? Should a large person who's lost a lot of weight also have to specify that? Should a tanned person list the true color of their skin? Yes these examples are less drastic but none the less they're still relevant to the point. If a person opts for a full sex change they are then that sex....... period.
 
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