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cristycurves

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I've met some ladies in the business over the years and those were some who didn't care to much for their job, it was the money that attracted them, which is fine but there are many of us also who do enjoy our job. However I'm calling it a lifestyle, because for me it's how I choose to date. It's how I meet men for my intimate needs and it also allows me extra cash for things I want. For me, it's the best of both worlds, I satiate my desires and have extra spending money.

Does it surprise you that some of us do really enjoy our clients, or are you of a belief that we're all money motivated?
 
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Women interact with men to get resources, so if you meet a client who is rich and generous, of course it makes sense that you would spend time with him outside of the appointment and reap benefits.
 
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cristycurves

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MisterAsianLover said:
Women interact with men to get resources, so if you meet a client who is rich and generous, of course it makes sense that you would spend time with him outside of the appointment and reap benefits.

No, you're wrong once again. Women interact/meet men because we're attracted to men. Many of us have our own resources, what we don't have is a penis and attached to a penis often times, are some very lovely gents who wish to share it and throw some cash in as well. That way we're both clear on it being about business and not personal.
I know you're incapable of believing many things about women, but someday you'll get the help needed to rectify you construed beliefs, and who said anything about meeting clients outside of appt times?
 

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cristycurves said:
No, you're wrong once again. Women interact/meet men because we're attracted to men. Many of us have our own resources, what we don't have is a penis and attached to a penis often times, are some very lovely gents who wish to share it and throw some cash in as well. That way we're both clear on it being about business and not personal.
I know you're incapable of believing many things about women, but someday you'll get the help needed to rectify you construed beliefs, and who said anything about meeting clients outside of appt times?

MAL is wrong Hmmmmmm
 

Johnnybegood

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I've been asked out by strippers, massage girls but they won't see me as a client. I get it and I don't but man strippers make the best temporary girlfriends.
 

waterloodude

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From the title I thought you meant escorts who book to see other escorts. I know of a few ladies who have done this.
 
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cristycurves

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waterloodude said:
From the title I thought you meant escorts who book to see other escorts. I know of a few ladies who have done this.

Yes I see how some might get that from the title and yes, I too have known of some escorts who too hire other escorts to fulfill their needs and good for them:good:. But I meant that although most assume escorts to be doing a job, because we exchange time/services for money, some of us do it for other reasons, for pleasure, fun, for sexual gratification, etc. Like hobbiests. So some escorts could be considered hobbying escorts:)

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waterloodude

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Getting back to the original question from your post I don't believe all escorts are money motivated (or at least not entirely). I've met a few escorts who seem genuinely hyper sexual so escorting is an outlet for that. Without escorting I'm not sure what they'd do. Porn maybe?
 

Anneliese

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Great Post Christy! No not all escorts are money motivated, I certainly can make that claim as when I decided to work it was as much for money as it was an avenue of sexual exploration..... I wanted to know if I could do it. And choosing to do it, and following through was a radical thing to do for a good Dutch Catholic girl for whom engaging in sex let alone sex for money was taboo.

So escorting for me I view along with the multitude of other sexual exploratory things I have done as my foray into discovering the boundaries of my sexuality and feeling out the edges of my desire. I have always been fascinated and interested in sex, having taken Psychology of Sexuality courses in university and being an RN, researched alot of the neuroscience and physiology of sex. The book "Come as You Are" by Emily Nagoski being the owner's manual to the vagina that every young girl should recieve at menarche.

To this day I have profiles on Tinder, Bumble, POF, Adultfriendfinder, and Chaturbate, and go to sex clubs periodically as the mood takes me. I have played with men, women and transexuals. I have danced in stripclubs, performed in amateur porn, been videotaped sucking and fucking by lovers a multitude of times, and have mastered the art of phonesex and sexting with a talent as proficient as my writing. Most of this I have never gotten paid for, just my desire motivating my actions and my arousal seeking out a need.

So yes there are escorts who are not motivated by money, but I would hazard a guess that most of these escorts are mature women, who have come into their own in terms of a sense of themselves and an understanding of their sexual needs and a desire to go and seek out what they need. I didn't have my first orgasm until in my 30's and when I was in my 20's I was insecure and clueless about my body and my focus more on finding a boyfriend and potential husband than whether or not he was any good in bed. Now a divorcee, with a ten year marriage behind me that was very unsatisfying sexually, I will not settle for any guy who cannot rock my world between the sheets.... Good sex and chemistry is key now.

I love that you escort as a means to facilitate dating.... hmmm ..... you have got me thinking, lol.
 

Andy_for_pay

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Johnnybegood said:
I've been asked out by strippers, massage girls but they won't see me as a client. I get it and I don't but man strippers make the best temporary girlfriends.


Chick with dicks. I like the way u roll, brotha
 

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