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Madman

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Joined Aug 12, 2011
Messages 17,543
Baz, Ida where are you?

What's going on, inquiring minds would like to know:don'twantto-see:/
 
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Wanker

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Madman said:
Baz, Ida where are you?

What's going on, inquiring minds would like to know:don'twantto-see:/

Easy there, I ran out of popcorn.

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ida

Senior Member
Joined Mar 2, 2012
Messages 65
Madman said:
Baz, Ida where are you?

What's going on, inquiring minds would like to know:don'twantto-see:/

So you take joy in other people's misery, how classy.

Then again you're a man, probably also a cheating useless one at that.

I'm surprised Baz hasn't been posting but also not surprised he has changed his password.

Probably so I don't see all the pm's he's sending now that he lives all alone.
 

Maurice Boscorelli

Senior Member
Joined May 30, 2010
Messages 19,337
ida said:
So you take joy in other people's misery, how classy. Then again you're a man, probably also a cheating useless one at that. I'm surprised Baz hasn't been posting but also not surprised he has changed his password. Probably so I don't see all the pm's he's sending now that he lives all alone.
So now you are going to just grind away at him now huh?....Very classy yourself.
 

Ms.MelodyMerlot

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Joined Jun 7, 2016
Messages 107
why are you still you on here? you caught him...so...not to be rude or anything....but...what are you still doing here?

divorce is NOT fun or easy, i can understand if you have no one else to talk to or something, but there are better forums for that sort of thing...

or are you just here to watch? in which case that's kinda creepy and also kinda unhealthy (for your mental health)



ida said:
So you take joy in other people's misery, how classy.

Then again you're a man, probably also a cheating useless one at that.

I'm surprised Baz hasn't been posting but also not surprised he has changed his password.

Probably so I don't see all the pm's he's sending now that he lives all alone.
 
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User-E

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I am posting this in the Lobby because by no means is this meant to be a review. This was a research and discovery mission conducted by myself with the approval and support of a very understanding wife. I could not express the gratitude I have for my lovely wife Ida, I’m truly blessed.

We've been in deep discussion over the last several weeks. When I initially proposed my idea my wife quickly shut me down. Through communication, revealing to her the scope of my intentions Ida finally capitulated and allowed me to go through with my plan in an attempt to understand the lure of pay for play. I believe much of this community’s displeasure in my posts arise from being looked upon as an outsider. I also wanted to understand on a personal level why so many are bitten by this bug and are seemingly addicted to the euphoria achieved from being with many different sexual partners.

There is a spa near our home and this is where my quest for knowledge begins.. I won’t mention the spa or the attendant but I expressed to Ida that I would like to enter the spa, choose an attended and proceed to a room where I would receive a massage only. No nudity, no touching of sexual parts but strictly a back massage for 30 minutes and an opportunity to discuss the “hobby” with a lady on a personal level. I was also very curious to see if I myself had the will power and self control to resist any advances. I have always been confident I do but to be actually put to the test in the field is an entirely different proposition.

Upon entering the establishment I was approached by a young lady. I was then introduced to several attractive young women. I chose one that seemed very friendly and I was escorted to the room, handed a towel and instructed to shower. I was asked for $40 and left to freshen up. I did not shower because I had done prior to arriving. I disrobed into my briefs only, laid face down on the bed and placed the towel on myself only exposing my back as this is what I had promised my lovely wife I would do.

I waited approximately 10 minutes for the arrival of the attendant. She walked in carrying some towels. Placed the towels down and commenced massaging my back with gentle light strokes, not really the type of massage I’m used to receiving from a professional. She asked me what type of session I was looking for and it was evident she was taken aback when I stated only a massage on my back and to please keep all her clothing on. I quickly saw her demeanor changing and so I began by asking why she appeared to be upset. She expressed her dismay at not being compensated for the type of session I chose. I was surprised to learn that the attendant does not receive any money from the door fee. I reassured her I would happily give her $50 for some good conversation and a decent back massage. This quickly cheered her up she continued to caress my back. She attempted on several occasions to seduce me by slipping her hand into the towel and offering me to touch her body which on all occasions I refused and restated my service requirements.

I learned she is doing what she does by choice and enjoys the extra money as opposed to working for minimum wage. Her words not mine. I also realized why so many of you are drawn to this mode of self gratification. It’s simple provided one has several hundred dollars in their pocket. I see how one can lose their self control especially if they do not have a significant other or live in a marriage where the love has diminished.

The young lady was warm hearted, well spoken and I’m sure once she completes her education she will land a much more satisfying career. She did promise me that was her goal and this was a temporary career choice, this claim warmed my heart. She also disclosed to me the differences in many of the clients are night and day. Some gentlemen are understanding and generous while others are demanding and very cheap, again her words not mine.

Perhaps now when I make suggestions it will come from a point of little more understanding on my part.

Hmmmmmm
 

Madman

Reviewer
Joined Aug 12, 2011
Messages 17,543
ida said:
So you take joy in other people's misery, how classy.

Then again you're a man, probably also a cheating useless one at that.

I'm surprised Baz hasn't been posting but also not surprised he has changed his password.

Probably so I don't see all the pm's he's sending now that he lives all alone.

I'm sorry Ida, I meant no harm and if you need someone to talk to over a coffee just let me know.
 

peace

Reviewer
Joined Dec 23, 2010
Messages 29,082
Madman said:
I'm sorry Ida, I meant no harm and if you need someone to talk to over a coffee just let me know.
Ida, if he offers his apple pie, just say no. :biggrin2: Hope you and Baz are doing ok despite the current circumstances.
 

ida

Senior Member
Joined Mar 2, 2012
Messages 65
Ms.MelodyMerlot said:
why are you still you on here? you caught him...so...not to be rude or anything....but...what are you still doing here?

divorce is NOT fun or easy, i can understand if you have no one else to talk to or something, but there are better forums for that sort of thing...

or are you just here to watch? in which case that's kinda creepy and also kinda unhealthy (for your mental health)

This is the forum that in essence has destroyed our marriage. I don't blame this forum but completely blame my weak minded future ex-husband.

escapefromstress said:

It's all correct but the pm's sent was not part of the deal. A detour to North Bay was never discussed. It's very convenient of you to post this from the past which I'm not disputing at all but when I post pms to prove my side, they are deleted.

Madman said:
I'm sorry Ida, I meant no harm and if you need someone to talk to over a coffee just let me know.

How nice, finally two individual have offered to meet with me for a coffee.

How do you feel about it Baz, should I meet Peace and Madman for a coffee to explore and gather insight on the "john" syndrome??

Although both gentlemen do not seem to be prolific pay for play "johns".

I'm surprised some of the prolific reviewers haven't taken me up on my offer??

Don't you think it would be interesting Baz to see if these individuals can actually sweep me off my feet or must they only rely on pay for play ladies? Of course this is just for "research".
 

Madman

Reviewer
Joined Aug 12, 2011
Messages 17,543
peace said:
I prefer a great latte. Not a fan of coffee. :biggrin2:

Peace, I asked Ida first. Go keep Papa company while I take Ida to Starbucks.


errr, Peace can you lend me $10,,,,Starbucks is not cheap.
 

peace

Reviewer
Joined Dec 23, 2010
Messages 29,082
Madman said:
Peace, I asked Ida first. Go keep Papa company while I take Ida to Starbucks.


errr, Peace can you lend me $10,,,,Starbucks is not cheap.


Is that enough? aren't you going to leave a small tip?

PS. Better to go to an independent place and there are a few in the beaches ....great lattes!
 

Madman

Reviewer
Joined Aug 12, 2011
Messages 17,543
peace said:
Is that enough? aren't you going to leave a small tip?

PS. Better to go to an independent place and there are a few in the beaches ....great lattes!

How do you know Ida is still in the beaches? What if Baz sees us sipping latte and kicks my arse all over the boardwalk?
 
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Madman said:
Peace, I asked Ida first. Go keep Papa company while I take Ida to Starbucks.


errr, Peace can you lend me $10,,,,Starbucks is not cheap.

Ida should pay. It was her idea to go for coffee.
 

Baz

Senior Member
Joined Feb 29, 2012
Messages 1,854
ida said:
Don't you think it would be interesting Baz to see if these individuals can actually sweep me off my feet or must they only rely on pay for play ladies? Of course this is just for "research".

I'm done with you therefore do as you wish.
 

Madman

Reviewer
Joined Aug 12, 2011
Messages 17,543
Baz said:
I'm done with you therefore do as you wish.

PEACE, we're in like a dirty shirt, Baz gave Ida a free pass!

Where's papa, I need my balls shaved.




DISCLAIMER: Ida please don't yell at me, I'm only joking....
 
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