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AbodeOfFelicity

Senior Member
Joined Oct 4, 2018
Messages 3
Dating with an escort


I'd like to share with you what happened and ask for your comments and advice. Thanks in advance!


Without going into too much detail... I'm 21 years old and I've seen a 20 year old (2 months younger than me) girl at a classy agency who started her career 5 months ago when she couldn't find a co-op internship. To give you quick run-down of what happened... many times she complemented, said i was sweet, nice, etc. And said she likes me. Asked what she likes (as in in bed) and also said i like you! Nothing too surprising there, can happen. But interestingly, I she studies philosophy and i study political science (and have great interest in philosophy) - so we ended up discussing about Kant, Hegel, Nietzsche, Aristotle, etc for the entire session. She also asked what I'd like to do as career and when i said become an academic she reacted as so I'm preemptively fucking my professor! And she had crush on a prof before for a year. She also said she is a nerd herself and likes nerds. I have not met any escort so far who could discuss about the metaphysics of morals or anything of that sort, and i have not met any girl who was passionate about that stuff either! Anyone i knew found those classes boring!


But what happened next is the key thing. She was blowing me (and was curious about how Kant's metaphysics derived from geometry so asked me to explain while she's blowing me) - and after awhile she got rid of the condom and started bbbj even tho normally it was extra. And after awhile she said this is our secret ok? I thought she meant the free bbbj and wanted me to not mention it on review-boards so i nodded. And then she got on top and first she was grinding on me a bit so i thought it was it but then all of a sudden she inserted me inside of her. I was not expecting that and she definitely did not clearly and explicitly ask. So that's what she meant by "our secret." Hmm. And then maybe jokingly she said now tell me what you think about the ethics of lying. So we talked about the letter Kant wrote about not lying even if it may mean the death of someone and compared it with Hobbes' consequentialism whilst both deriving from rationality and not emotion etc. -- while she was grinding on me with me being inside her without a condom.


Overall, she seemed and sounded genuine and sincere - i could not sense any fakeness and i mean at least she can't really fake her passion and knowledge for philosophy. She wasn't the most amazing girl physically (tho she was still beautiful) or sex wise but talking to her was just on another level, it did not feel like just trying to pass the time by talking about general things. Even on the first session, i never wanted to stop talking to her and talking to her was the most fun thing and what i miss the most about her. I would have loved to have her as my girlfriend or even as a friend!


So I will for sure visit her again and see what happens but I feel like asking her out on a date, perhaps asking her phone number. I know, this should especially not even be attempted without being an actual regular and getting to know her but I'm in the city for only 2.5 more months. If anything, I'd love to get to know her a bit more and I simply don't have the funds to see her more than one or two and maybe three more times.


I'm not trying to go for a freebie and am even fine with just remaining as friends and I really don't want to make her feel like i am just seeking a freebie out of her and that i do not care about her but if i ask her out that's what she might think I'm afraid. And I'm also concerned about asking too early. And of course i am concerned about her not being interested in seeing me off-work. I'm just not sure what to do at all. But i also feel like i dont have much to lose by just asking. But even then, I'm not even sure what the best method to ask would be. And there's the fear of rejection as well.
 

nntsci

Reviewer
Joined Jul 15, 2016
Messages 754
I've met a few very smart ladies and have had great conversations with so that's nothing big.

I've met a number of very intelligent ladies including an upper year law student, and an engineer.

Metaphysics was not a topic, but I had fun trying to draw a picture of a lady, while she was given me a bbbf.

I've had a couple of close relationship with escorts that was more than just business, but as long as you are paying, its still really fantasy.

Ladies do sometimes get romantically involved with customers, but you have to ask yourself if you can handle it; especially if she is still working.

I know of a man who left his wife for an escort (and drove off with her, in a Ford Escort).

The choice to go full service without condom was a bad (even stupid) decision given that she's still working.

I hope for your sake you are the only customer who she treats that way (don't count on it).

Other than that, good luck.
 
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Alomar

Senior Member
Joined Jun 16, 2012
Messages 294
Dude, get out and fast. No matter how smart, pretty and innocent looking she is..................................DON"T SEE HER AGAIN. Don't take your chances, if she does it to you she will do the same to those you like. Trust those with experiences in this matter.

You should go see your family doctor or the hassle free clinic pronto to get a full check up.
 

Xpoq

Senior Member
Joined Jul 28, 2016
Messages 68
No, no and no. Don't ask her for a date, ask her for her checkups/tests for the many diseases she may have. Being young and naive is not an excuse to be pussy dumb.
 

Patch2020

Senior Member
Joined Dec 10, 2011
Messages 134
What type of advice are you asking for?. Is it, should you do unprotected sex with a hooker again?.
 

Andrew_

Senior Member
Joined Oct 16, 2017
Messages 256
You are joking, right?.


This gave you in. Too Hollywood scripted.

But what happened next is the key thing. She was blowing me (and was curious about how Kant's metaphysics derived from geometry so asked me to explain while she's blowing me)
 

AbodeOfFelicity

Senior Member
Joined Oct 4, 2018
Messages 3
You are joking, right?.


This gave you in. Too Hollywood scripted.

But what happened next is the key thing. She was blowing me (and was curious about how Kant's metaphysics derived from geometry so asked me to explain while she's blowing me)

no i'm not joking. She was complaining about how Kant's philosophy was set in morals and I was arguing that premise is not correct since it is based on the abstract which in one of his essays he argues is deriven from geometry. She has never heard of this so she wanted me to explain it.
 

nntsci

Reviewer
Joined Jul 15, 2016
Messages 754
no i'm not joking. She was complaining about how Kant's philosophy was set in morals and I was arguing that premise is not correct since it is based on the abstract which in one of his essays he argues is deriven from geometry. She has never heard of this so she wanted me to explain it.

Geometry was very popular in Kant's time; all military strategy was thought of in terms of lines and angles.
But Kant concludes that the mathematical method cannot be applied to achieve philosophical (and, in particular, metaphysical) results, for the primary reason that “geometers acquire their concepts by means of synthesis, whereas philosophers can only acquire their concepts by means of analysis—and that completely changes the method of thought” Kant's Philosophy of Mathematics (Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy)

oh, and as others have said unprotected sex with an escort is a stupid idea.
 

Timbber

Senior Member
Joined Jul 28, 2016
Messages 13
Comments: You lucked out being with an intellectual SP that thinks like you.

Advice: Never ever do bareback again no matter how horny you are. Not worth the major headaches.
 

AbodeOfFelicity

Senior Member
Joined Oct 4, 2018
Messages 3
Comments: You lucked out being with an intellectual SP that thinks like you.

Advice: Never ever do bareback again no matter how horny you are. Not worth the major headaches.

You're all correct in saying i should not do bareback, although as i mentioned, she did not ask clearly (and i thought she meant the free bbbj) so i nodded and she got on top of me. But after that i kind of went ahead with it given the moment. But what other advice do you have in terms of asking her out? How should i approach that? Perhaps saying I really enjoy talking to you, wish I could talk to you outside of this 1-hour restriction and wait for her response?
 

Timbber

Senior Member
Joined Jul 28, 2016
Messages 13
But after that i kind of went ahead with it given the moment. But what other advice do you have in terms of asking her out? How should i approach that? Perhaps saying I really enjoy talking to you, wish I could talk to you outside of this 1-hour restriction and wait for her response?

Sorry young man but you missed the point and the boat all together.

No, you don't ask her out and no do not trust her. Go ahead and feel special but if she did it for you (without protection) she will do it with others. She may be clean and into you only but the odds on that are so against you.

I will end it at this.
 

TFZL1

2
Joined Nov 28, 2015
Messages 283
I thought I responded to this earlier?

did you get test results back yet?

not only should you not date her, like others said, stay away from her, but you should report her to the ‘classy’ agency she works for.
and let us know who NOT to see so we can protect ourselves.

2 agency girls have offered me bbfs, both looking for an upcharge. the first was brand new and a long time ago. I told her never do that or I would report her. She didn’t even know it was frowned on.
the other was a well known girl, I reported to the agency and she left the business.
 

demien3k5

Senior Member
Joined Mar 24, 2017
Messages 1,238
TFZL1 said:
the other was a well known girl, I reported to the agency and she left the business.

Sure you did. <rolls eyes>

Since you're so gung ho above to have the OP let us know who the SP is so we can 'protect ourselves', you should do the same. That way all the guys who saw your 'well known' girl can go and get tested too.
 

Jessica Rain

2
Advertiser
Joined Aug 12, 2014
Messages 1,234
Awe - to be young and dumb again.

I don't mean that as an insult. Experience would have stopped that before it started. On both sides, hers and yours.
 

Brick

Senior Member
Joined Jun 10, 2011
Messages 614
Jessica Rain said:
Awe - to be young and dumb again.

I don't mean that as an insult. Experience would have stopped that before it started. On both sides, hers and yours.
That's OKs how us your new tits anyway,
 

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