Joined Aug 12, 2011
Pamela said:I've been thinking on this topic since first coming across and I think what's being missed here (by MAL and possibly others) is that there is a vast difference between the marketing of a "mere service" (ie- get em in, get em up, get em off, get em out) and those who are offering a true experience (something which exceeds the fundamental set of holes that are required for the basics of sex work) because there is a great difference between these 2 types encounters, the workers who provide them, and also the clients who seek such things....
Given his previous statements,
MAL strikes me as the "half hour hero" type hobbyist (just looking to get off quick, simple and cheap) and while there is nothing wrong with that, women like Dillan (for example) are not priced, nor are they marketing themselves to such an audience because they offer more than just cheap 'n easy thrills within their businesses- they offer a different type of experience which sits above the basic principal and dynamics of mere pay for play escort exchanges...
IMO, neither "service" nor "experience" is better than the other because both essentially have a function and serve clients needs as they arise; however there is a definite difference between the two that cannot be ignored, nor undermined when looking at each as a stand alone "type" of escort engagement.
Pretty girl (or not), low- mediocre rates, sub par/mechanical sexual exchange (or better), poor to decent atmosphere/location, possibility for drug/alcohol/pimps high, cleanliness and safety standards low, high volume typical, upgrades and additional fees behind doors to be expected, lack of personal connection standard, clock watching/revolving door frequently, mixed reviews to be expected, unreliable, hit n' miss, no shows, and other less desirable attributes are often all to common among the "service type" workers...
^these girls^ are a dime a dozen- their rates, reviews and 24/7 availability (with a mere 30 minutes notice for booking) often reflect that quite accurately.
Pretty girl (or better), competitive to higher end rates, high energy and often mutually enjoyable sexual exchange, very nice to high end atmosphere/location, drugs/alcohol/pimps less frequently seen, cleanliness and safety standards much higher a priority, typically lower volume (due to higher rates), rates given are "all in" without upgrades/add ons, etc..., establishing a personal connection (through conversation and/or sexual chemistry) is more so a priority, time stands still and is completely devoted to the client during the encounter, stellar reviews are typically seen across many review boards, reliable and professional in communication and time management, works hard to give the best experience to each client she meets, possible need to reschedule but never a no show, and many other attributes which come together to ensure that clients are always given the best experience an "experience focused" worker such as this can provide.
^these girls^ are the rare gems found within the industry and their rates, reviews and often difficulty in setting up appointments (due to their popularity) often reflect that quite accurately.
As I said, there is nothing wrong with being a half hour hero who is focused simply on the mechanics (sex) of the exchange, nor is there anything with wrong with being a "service focused" escort; but there is a definite difference which needs to be considered when looking at the marketing of "service" vs. those who are promoting an "experience" which exceeds the service function alone because YES the marketing between the 2 is often very different and YES (for some) intellect plays a part in that.
Why might intellect be important to clients?
I have some of my own theories; but I'd love to hear others take on why intelligence may be something men look for when selecting a lady for their enjoyment
There are some men that enjoy having an intelligent conversation after the sex. I hear of some men that merely cuddle and talk with their temporary partner then head back to the office. At the same time, there are amazing ladies at very reasonable rates that can be had for the thirty minute quick bang and thank you m'am. I.E Mirage ladies, Sassy, Roommates, SexyFriends ect.......
Pamela, you young lady are a very intelligent young lass based on your post.