Any SPs who aren't intelligent?

[Madman]

I've been thinking on this topic since first coming across and I think what's being missed here (by MAL and possibly others) is that there is a vast difference between the marketing of a "mere service" (ie- get em in, get em up, get em off, get em out) and those who are offering a true experience (something which exceeds the fundamental set of holes that are required for the basics of sex work) because there is a great difference between these 2 types encounters, the workers who provide them, and also the clients who seek such things....


Given his previous statements,



MAL strikes me as the "half hour hero" type hobbyist (just looking to get off quick, simple and cheap) and while there is nothing wrong with that, women like Dillan (for example) are not priced, nor are they marketing themselves to such an audience because they offer more than just cheap 'n easy thrills within their businesses- they offer a different type of experience which sits above the basic principal and dynamics of mere pay for play escort exchanges...


IMO, neither "service" nor "experience" is better than the other because both essentially have a function and serve clients needs as they arise; however there is a definite difference between the two that cannot be ignored, nor undermined when looking at each as a stand alone "type" of escort engagement.

Service-
Pretty girl (or not), low- mediocre rates, sub par/mechanical sexual exchange (or better), poor to decent atmosphere/location, possibility for drug/alcohol/pimps high, cleanliness and safety standards low, high volume typical, upgrades and additional fees behind doors to be expected, lack of personal connection standard, clock watching/revolving door frequently, mixed reviews to be expected, unreliable, hit n' miss, no shows, and other less desirable attributes are often all to common among the "service type" workers...
^these girls^ are a dime a dozen- their rates, reviews and 24/7 availability (with a mere 30 minutes notice for booking) often reflect that quite accurately.

Experience-
Pretty girl (or better), competitive to higher end rates, high energy and often mutually enjoyable sexual exchange, very nice to high end atmosphere/location, drugs/alcohol/pimps less frequently seen, cleanliness and safety standards much higher a priority, typically lower volume (due to higher rates), rates given are "all in" without upgrades/add ons, etc..., establishing a personal connection (through conversation and/or sexual chemistry) is more so a priority, time stands still and is completely devoted to the client during the encounter, stellar reviews are typically seen across many review boards, reliable and professional in communication and time management, works hard to give the best experience to each client she meets, possible need to reschedule but never a no show, and many other attributes which come together to ensure that clients are always given the best experience an "experience focused" worker such as this can provide.
^these girls^ are the rare gems found within the industry and their rates, reviews and often difficulty in setting up appointments (due to their popularity) often reflect that quite accurately.


As I said, there is nothing wrong with being a half hour hero who is focused simply on the mechanics (sex) of the exchange, nor is there anything with wrong with being a "service focused" escort; but there is a definite difference which needs to be considered when looking at the marketing of "service" vs. those who are promoting an "experience" which exceeds the service function alone because YES the marketing between the 2 is often very different and YES (for some) intellect plays a part in that.



Why might intellect be important to clients?

I have some of my own theories; but I'd love to hear others take on why intelligence may be something men look for when selecting a lady for their enjoyment

Any takers?

P

There are some men that enjoy having an intelligent conversation after the sex. I hear of some men that merely cuddle and talk with their temporary partner then head back to the office. At the same time, there are amazing ladies at very reasonable rates that can be had for the thirty minute quick bang and thank you m'am. I.E Mirage ladies, Sassy, Roommates, SexyFriends ect.......

Pamela, you young lady are a very intelligent young lass based on your post.

 

[Madman]

@MM :LMAO::rofl!:.........now you've admitted to peeking at Og's wang again:wink2:.....and you saw it from a distance, up close it's very large

I didn't peek my love....OG comes into my room and puts his little pecker through the cage bars mumbling something like

"papa told me to poke the bear" "hey bear, wanna come to Mcdees"

Luckily it never passes clearly through the cage so no harm done. I usually get dressed and we go to Mcdees for coffee and pancakes!

BTW, do you know how to trap a smerf? It wouldn't fall under animal cruelty because smerf don't count.

 

[cristycurves]

I have some of my own theories; but I'd love to hear others take on why intelligence may be something men look for when selecting a lady for their enjoyment

Any takers?

Some choose who they share time with based on those who reflect their similar traits, intelligence and "class" being a couple of the most common, but that's just as I see it
I agree with your comments about "service" and "experience", the hardest thing about this industry is that many men expect most women to provide both.
MM- most men that seek an "experience" like to cuddle before and after, it's a way of feeling wanted, accepted and appreciated and of showing those as well. I believe an experience isn't set by a time frame but by sincerity of service and genuine interaction

 

[peace]

Sorry dude I misinterpreted what you wrote obviously.

I do find it amusing that you of all the members on here are involved in a tiff with a female member,lol

Me thinks perhaps she has been doing some misinterpreting of her own

It is ok Maurice. Thank you for seeking clarification with me.

 

[peace]

Went over every post of his in that thread and there wasn't one iota of anything written by Peace that was rude or disrespectful.

Unless she is upset that he posted that he didn't want to take OG up on his proposal that ''You and Peace should kiss and make out.''

And if that post ruffled some feathers then somebody should check their skin because its pretty translucent.

I've always said Peace is one of the coolest cross dressers on here,lol.

Cross dresser???? :no::no:

 

[peace]

Well I don't like it either, but and since Maurice has to keep inferring and insisting that his "buddy" does no wrong I'll end by saying and this is the last time I'll say it, I see it differently!! The last post Peace made that was unnecessary, rude and directed at me was when he in his coy way suggested that the "naked post counter thread" be changed when it held my name, he just couldn't stand it, and felt it just didn't sound right, everyone's else's name sounded right, but mine, lol. Rude? Mature? Unnecessary? Childish? Yes I thought so and probably so is my acknowledging it but I have. Good for you Maurice for taking all that time, lol, we can see things differently, I think that's allowed

Honestly you took it the wrong way. It really had nothing to do with you. It was more directed at my support for Madman in a humorous way. I even mentioned i didnt want his thread too. However I apologize if you felt slighted.

Meanwhile Maurice thank you for calling me a buddy as it is a compliment coming from you. I hate to disappoint you but crossdressing isnt my thing.
Papasmerf, thank you for actually giving me a compliment re: gentleman. That was unexpected of you. Someone must have made you happy recently. Perhaps Robin made it happen.

Thesun, please let it go but thank you for your concerns.

Johnnybegood, why are you thinking about my ass? Did this get you banned?

In the meantime, escaprefromstress is right, can we move on please.

 

[Maurice Boscorelli]

Cross dresser???? :no::no:

Hey I did say the coolest.......LOL

 

[Prim0]

Back on topic.....

It's not so much intelligence as attitude for me. I like debating and having in depth discussions about various topics, but when it comes to sex, I just want to have fun.

 

[papasmerf]

Back on topic.....

It's not so much intelligence as attitude for me. I like debating and having in depth discussions about various topics, but when it comes to sex, I just want to have fun.

Noted and OG is on his way with his Ronald McDonald costume

 

[cristycurves]

Thank you Peace very kind of you to apologize, I appreciate it and I apologize to you. I don't expect you or anyone to have to like me but I do deserve the same respect as anyone here. Moving on....

 

[The cute one]

Thank you all

 

[bolt.upright]

Group hug everybody!

 

[JessieJames]

Perfect outcome. let the members battle it out without mod interference, bannings etc.......adults can sort their own battles out.

 

[waterloodude]

Some choose who they share time with based on those who reflect their similar traits, intelligence and "class" being a couple of the most common, but that's just as I see it

I would agree on the idea similar traits/interests can increase the level of attraction for me. Maybe it helps me relate more and thus feel more comfortable being a shy guy normally. 'Intelligence' is probably too broad a description. I may be considered 'intelligent' in my particular fields of study and work, but other areas I may be completely clueless. But I'm naturally curious so in some cases a non-shared interest may also present as an opportunity to learn more. Others may have intelligence outside some school based learning. So saying you're intelligent is a bit meaningless to me.

 

[Madman]

I would agree on the idea similar traits/interests can increase the level of attraction for me. Maybe it helps me relate more and thus feel more comfortable being a shy guy normally. 'Intelligence' is probably too broad a description. I may be considered 'intelligent' in my particular fields of study and work, but other areas I may be completely clueless. But I'm naturally curious so in some cases a non-shared interest may also present as an opportunity to learn more. Others may have intelligence outside some school based learning. So saying you're intelligent is a bit meaningless to me.

Street smarts vs book smarts, which one has the advantage?Hmmmmmm

 

[Pamela]

There are some men that enjoy having an intelligent conversation after the sex. I hear of some men that merely cuddle and talk with their temporary partner then head back to the office.

Thank you for your insight MM

While I've never personally experienced the "talk n cuddle" I can say that conversation after the main event (whether it be intelligent or not) is definitely mutually enjoyable because it's often during this time that we get to know each other on a whole new level, and it is on that level that a both a mutual respect and 'relationship' form.

At the same time, there are amazing ladies at very reasonable rates that can be had for the thirty minute quick bang and thank you m'am. I.E Mirage ladies, Sassy, Roommates, SexyFriends ect.......

I couldn't agree more. There is certainly a time (and need) for the quicker "wham bam" sessions, along with some very excellent providers who can/will accommodate a lust filled 30 minutes of fun without breaking the bank

Pamela, you young lady are a very intelligent young lass based on your post.

Thank you

 

[cristycurves]

I would agree on the idea similar traits/interests can increase the level of attraction for me. Maybe it helps me relate more and thus feel more comfortable being a shy guy normally. 'Intelligence' is probably too broad a description. I may be considered 'intelligent' in my particular fields of study and work, but other areas I may be completely clueless. But I'm naturally curious so in some cases a non-shared interest may also present as an opportunity to learn more. Others may have intelligence outside some school based learning. So saying you're intelligent is a bit meaningless to me.

You make a good point about intelligence, it's a term that can encompass many fields, and there are many types of intelligence. Those who can draw for example have an "artistic" intelligence, those with intuition, would have another form of intelligence. A heart surgeon will be well schooled and great at fixing heart problems but my be inept at writing poetry. Some people are book read and learned and others are talented and able to learn by doing or learn from the school of life, either ways, it all takes some form of intelligence